得众而不得其心，则与独行者同实。
拥有众多军队但不得军心，实质上和单人行动一样。
Man’s main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is. The most important product of his effort is his own personality.
You don't learn to walk by following rules. You learn by doing, and by falling over.
你不能通过人们如何度过他们的人生来评判他们。你只能通过他们如何对待你来评判。
小说的第一句话最重要，但最后一句话会一直留在你心里。