Life is too short to not go for what you want.
We are all of us made by what we have done, and what has been done to us.
【译文】 孔子说:“陪君子说话要注意三种毛病:没到说的时候就说,叫做急躁;到该说的时候不说,叫做隐瞒;不顾对方的表情就说,叫做睁眼瞎。”