To feel much for others and little for ourselves； to restrain our selfishness and exercise our benevolent affections， constitute the perfection of human nature.
小说不仅仅是一个故事；它是一面映照社会的镜子。
记忆可以使一件事看起来比实际更多。
"The things we admire in men, kindness and generosity, openness, honesty, understanding and feeling, are the concomitants of failure in our system. And those traits we detest, sharpness, greed, acquisitiveness, meanness, egotism and self-interest, are the traits of success."
解读：人与人的经历、观念差异巨大，所以日常交流、相处中，被他人误解司空见惯，能够被透彻理解是极为难得的，要习惯误解，珍惜难得的理解瞬间。
