Don't just fight in the North or the South. Always imagine every battle in your mind, where everyone is both your enemy and your friend, and all possible events happen simultaneously. That way, nothing will take you by surprise, and everything that happens will be something you've already imagined.
I think the best relationships are the ones where you can be completely yourself.
当我们把羁绊孩子的人为事物,以及自以为是用来教导孩子规矩的暴力放置在一旁是地,我们就会看到孩子崭新的一面。