对人骄傲无礼的人，不是有出息的人。骄傲，就是自满；自满，就是空虚。行事有了自满与空虚，做事就会被限制。

So what I want to argue for is not that we should give up on our ideas of success, but we should make sure that they are our own. We should focus in on our ideas, and make sure that we own them; that we are truly the authors of our own ambitions. Because it's bad enough not getting what you want, but it's even worse to have an idea of what it is you want, and find out, at the end of the journey, that it isn't, in fact, what you wanted all along.

释义：帮助别人，别人未必能变得富裕，而自己却可能因此陷入贫困。