痛苦的秘诀在于有闲暇去纠结自己是否幸福。
The secret of being miserable is to have leisure to bother about whether you are happy or not.
The joy is in the journey, not just the destination.
没人会和你自己一样对你所拥有的东西印象深刻。(Morgan Housel《金钱心理学》里面的一句话,可以理解为禀赋效应:即,由于情感上的偏见,人们在自己已经拥有的东西上比尚未获得的东西拥有更大的价值)
在以情动人前,你自己要先被打动。在你催人泪下前,你自己要热泪盈眶。在你以理服人前,你自己要坚信不疑。
Memory is not just a personal matter; it is also a collective one.