To overcome the anxieties and depressions of contemporary life, individuals must become independent of the social environment to the degree that they no longer respond exclusively in terms of its rewards and punishments.
"I don't think you can ever really understand a character until you've walked in their shoes."
The heart is a fragile thing, easily broken, but also capable of immense love and resilience.
真相很少是纯粹的，也从不简单。
To make mistakes is human. To own your mistakes is divine. Nothing elevates a person higher than quickly admitting and taking personal responsibility for the mistakes you make and then fixing them fairly. If you mess up， fess up. It’s astounding how powerful this ownership is.
Boundaries define us. They define what is me and what is not me. A boundary shows me where I end and someone else begins, leading me to a sense of ownership.
Quality should never be compromised for speed.
A covenant not to defend myself from force， by force， is always void.
中原的事业如同江南一样，何必因为六朝的兴衰而怨恨芳草呢？