我学会了无法控制别人对你的评价，但可以控制自己的反应。
I've learned that you can't control what other people say about you, but you can control how you react to it.
Literature isn’t a moral beauty contest. Its power arises from the authority of a voice, not the purity of a soul.
【解释】脑力劳动者统治人，体力劳动者被人统治；被统治者养活别人，统治者靠别人养活，这是通行天下的原则。