You don’t marry a person, you marry a family.
The stranger is close to us, insofar as we feel between him and ourselves common features of a national, social, occupational, or generally human, nature. He is far from us, insofar as these common features extend beyond him or us, and connect us only because they connect a great many people.
你能创造的最有价值的东西就是错误——你无法从完美中学到任何东西。