你必须忠于自己。足够坚强才能忠于自己。足够勇敢才能足够坚强地忠于自己。足够健康才能足够勇敢地足够坚强地从真实的自我中塑造自己。
You have to be true to yourself. Strong enough to be true to yourself. Brave enough to be strong enough to be true to yourself. Healthy enough to be brave enough to be strong enough to shape yourself from what you actually are.
The past is always changing. Every time we remember something, we alter it slightly, until eventually, our memories become stories we tell ourselves.
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.