"Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers."

"To understand a culture, one must first listen to its stories."

是个正常人都喜欢钱财，但要用正当的手段去求取；无论是男性还是女性都希望自己帅气和美丽，这是人之常情，但也要有礼仪规范。

出自先秦《荀子·修身》。利益少，但是道义多，这样的事要做。在利与义之间要舍利而取义，强调的是一种修身原则。