我认为最好的关系是那些你可以完全做自己的关系。
I think the best relationships are the ones where you can be completely yourself.
And we also suck in messages from everything from the television, to advertising, to marketing, etc. These are hugely powerful forces that define what we want and how we view ourselves. When we're told that banking is a very respectable profession, a lot of us want to go into banking. When banking is no longer so respectable, we lose interest in banking. We are highly open to suggestion.
问题的解决不是机械地应用过去的经验,而是通过重构情境来实现。
做事情,不能有伤害别人的坏念头;但要有警惕他人、防备他人的念头。这是在告诫与人交往思考不周的人。