We are all of us made by what we have lost as much as by what we have gained.
我们都是由我们所失去的和我们所获得的共同塑造的。
The greatest rewards come from working on something that nobody else is working on.
孔子说：“君子总是胸怀宽广，小人总是忧愁悲伤。”
恨自己就无法爱他人。这就是在面对因其极度高洁而闻名的人时，我们感觉极为不安的原因：他们带来自我折磨的氛围——一种邪恶而非德行。