过去是一个异国；他们在那里做事的方式不同。
"The past is a foreign country; they do things differently there."
"In the end, we are all just trying to make sense of the madness around us."
当我们发现保持不变比改变更痛苦时，我们就会改变自己的行为。后果给我们带来痛苦，激励我们去改变。