独处的能力就是爱的能力。这对你来说可能看起来矛盾,但事实并非如此。这是一个存在的真理:只有那些能够独处的人才有能力去爱,去分享,去深入另一个人的最深处——而不占有对方,不依赖对方,不将对方物化,不对对方上瘾。
The ability to be alone is the ability to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those who can be alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another human being—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other.
在语言中,词语和它们所指的事物之间没有一对一的对应关系。
"The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you'll go."
The best leaders are those who create more leaders, not more followers.
I'm not a teacher, I'm a student.
我有时候会想,上帝在造人时,似乎高估了她自己的能力。