母子关系是矛盾的，在某种意义上，是悲剧性的。它需要母亲最强烈的爱，然而这种爱必须帮助孩子离开母亲，变得完全独立。
The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, in a sense, tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mother's side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent.
我失败了很多次，这就是我成功的原因。
The past is always tense, the future perfect.
