The whole difference between construction and creation is exactly this: that a thing constructed can only be loved after it is constructed; but a thing created is loved before it exists.

应该忧虑的是自身不好，而不该忧虑别人不了解自己。《老子》中说“知人者智也，自知者明也。”人生要多些反思，也要多些扪心自问，看清自己更重要。