本来是贫穷的人家，却非要学人家富人的样子，吃好的、穿好的、用好的，这样的话，用不了多久，这个家就完了。
"I have always liked the phrase 'nursing a grudge,' because many people are tender of their resentments, as of the thing nearest their hearts."
To write is to leave a trace, to make a mark on the world.
