女性工作的故事是一面反映社会价值观和优先事项的镜子。
认为贞洁是一种美德是人类心灵的迷信之一。
任何有机体最难做的事情就是观察自己。
Perhaps you are overvaluing what you don’t have and undervaluing what you do.
爱就是冒着不被爱的风险。希望就是冒着痛苦的风险。尝试就是冒着失败的风险，但必须承担风险，因为人生最大的危险就是什么都不冒险。
At a restaurant do you order what you know is great， or do you try something new？ Do you make what you know will sell or try something new？ Do you keep dating new folks or try to commit to someone you already met？ The optimal balance for exploring new things vs exploiting them once found is: 1/3. Spend 1/3 of your time on exploring and 2/3 time on deepening. It is harder to devote time to exploring as you age because it seems unproductive， but aim for 1/3.
