The only relationship that can make both partners happy is one in which sentimentality has no place and neither partner makes any claim on the life and freedom of the other.
The freedom then of man, and liberty of acting according to his own will, is grounded on his having reason, which is able to instruct him in that law he is to govern himself by, and make him know how far he is left to the freedom of his own will.
问题不是谁会让我做,而是谁会阻止我。
我不会成为那个必须说最后一句话的女孩。但我会成为那个必须笑到最后的女孩。