Being able to listen well is a superpower. While listening to someone you love keep asking them “Is there more?”, until there is no more.
善于倾听是一种超能力。倾听你所爱之人的时候,多问问“还有什么?”,直到他们倾诉了所有。
很多时候,我们都需要面对选择。如果都有好处,就要取其中好处最大的;如果都有害处,就取其中害处最小的。
The best way to untangle a knotty tangle is not to “untie” the knots, but to keep pulling the loops apart wider and wider. Just make the mess as big, loose and open as possible. As you open up the knots they will unravel themselves. Works on cords, strings, hoses, yarns, or electronic cables.
儿童的教养源于成人的修为而非说教。
要想得到你想要的东西,你必须配得上你想要的东西。这个世界还没有疯狂到可以奖励一大堆人的地步。
解释:清澈与浑浊,细微与宏大,短小与绵长,急促与舒缓,哀伤与快乐,刚硬与柔软,迟滞与快速,高昂与低徊,呼出与收缩,周密与疏朗,因此而相互辅助。