The most common form of despair is not being who you are.

旅行让你无言，然后把你变成一个讲故事的人。

If you can't understand why someone is doing something, look at the consequences of their actions, whatever they might be, and then infer the motivations from their consequences.

释义：人际关系如果疏远了，就难以恢复；事情如果积累多了，就难以解决。说明了做人要重视人际关系的互动。

黑眼豆豆是一场运动，不仅仅是一个组合。