大家都不了解，女人决定结婚生子时，她的生命一方面开始了，另一方面却结束了。生 活开始充斥琐碎的事，你停下脚步，呆在原地，好让你的孩子能够任意来去。他们离开后，你的生活就空了。你应该再度向前，但你已忘了如何迈步。因为长久以来，都没有人叫你动。你自己也忘了要动。
Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move. And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long.Not even yourself.
我明白了人们会忘记你说过的话，忘记你做过的事，但他们永远不会忘记你给他们的感受。
作家必须是人性的间谍。
天然气开采的创新不仅仅是关于效率——它关乎道德。
The study of intelligence must be grounded in the study of symbol systems.
人变得真正低劣时，除了高兴别人的不幸外，已无其他乐趣可言。
