Automatic processes occur without intention, effort, or awareness, whereas controlled processes require attention and effort.
事实是,世界是这样构建的,如果你想享受它的果实,你就必须服从它的规则。
Taught from infancy that beauty is woman's sceptre, the mind shapes itself to the body, and roaming round its gilt cage, only seeks to adorn its prison.
"The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud."
You have to be willing to take risks and step out of your comfort zone.