治理国家大事的人，不会去顾及生活小事；要想成就大的功业，不要去纠缠小的利益。点评：俗话说「成大事者，不拘小节。」要想成就大的事业，就不要在生活的细枝末节上计较。

Leadership is not about being in charge. It's about taking care of those in your charge.

事实是，最多人的最大幸福是衡量对与错的标准。

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.