I am a bad feminist, but I am a feminist.

君子有三种事应该加以警戒：年轻的时候，血气还没有固定，力戒贪恋女色；到了壮年时期，血气正旺盛，力戒逞强好斗；到了老年时期，血气已经衰弱，力戒贪得无厌。

I don’t think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it’s a selecting process, knowing what’s the most important and what’s the lest. And then be a simple man.

To men like that, time was a surfeit, a barrel they watched slowly drain. When really, he thinks, it’s a glowing puddle you carry in your hands; you should spend all your energy protecting it.