That's exhilarating if you're doing well, and very crushing if you're not. It leads, in the worst cases -- in the analysis of a sociologist like Emil Durkheim -- it leads to increased rates of suicide. There are more suicides in developed, individualistic countries than in any other part of the world. And some of the reason for that is that people take what happens to them extremely personally -- they own their success, but they also own their failure.

【译文】 孔子说：“理想无法实现了，我准备乘筏漂到海上。会跟我走的，只有子路吧？”

理解习惯背后的心理学可以打开个人成长和自我提升的大门。

我不是为了娱乐而唱歌。我为那些经历过地狱又回来的女人唱歌。

在这个希望你做任何事而不是阅读的世界里，阅读是一种反叛行为。