解读：区分事务可控性，对可控之事精细谋划，预防风险；对不可控之事，忧愁无用，不如乐观豁达面对，合理调配心态与精力。

"The true essence of a character is revealed not through their actions, but through the choices they make in the face of adversity."

这是我听过的最好的回答。

设计程序的最好方法是设计它。