The science shows that our minds lie to us about what will make us happy.
The first step is you have to say that you can.
【译文】 孔子说:“君子帮助人取得成绩,不促使人陷入失败。小人相反。”
再说,义就是匡正的意思,不能以下正上,必须是以上正下。 
I don't need a reason to be legendary.