Twenty years of romance make a woman look like a ruin; but twenty years of marriages make her look like a public building.

作家要么是隐居的实践者，要么是内疚的、有过失的人。

理解变化的唯一方式就是投身其中，随之而动，加入这场舞蹈。

"The world begins at a kitchen table. No matter what, we must eat to live."

What is learned is not movements but meanings.