告子虽然诋毁我的行为,但还是胜过毫无毁誉。 
You may not be able to alter reality, but you can alter your attitude towards it, and this, paradoxically, alters reality.
"The past is always tense, the future perfect."
反过来,始终反过来:把情况或问题颠倒过来,从反面看。