Scars have the strange power to remind us that our past is real.

语出西汉·桓宽《盐铁论·疾贪》。表：古代测量日影以计时的标杆。要想让影子正，就要先将标杆树直；要想让下面的人清廉，就要先自己做到清廉。说明上位是下位的表率。

"The past is never dead. It's not even past."

办丧事虽有一定的礼仪，但还是以哀痛为本。