每件促使我们注意到他人的事，都能使我们更好地理解自己。

每件负面的事–压力、挑战–都是一个让我提升的良机。

So why do I talk about the benefits of failure? Simply because failure meant a stripping away of the inessential. I stopped pretending to myself that I was anything other than what I was, and began to direct all my energy into finishing the only work that mattered to me.

感恩释放了生命的丰盛。它将我们所拥有的变成足够，甚至更多。它将拒绝变成接受，混乱变成秩序，困惑变成清晰。它可以将一顿饭变成盛宴，一所房子变成家，一个陌生人变成朋友。