And when you’re down in the hole， when that moment comes， it’s really okay to feel bad for a little while. Give yourself time to mourn what you think you may have lost but then here’s the key， learn from every mistake because every experience， encounter， and particularly your mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are. And then figure out what is the next right move.

When the third appeared, he thrust at it with the knife, only to feel the blade[刀片] snap as the fish rolled. 

生活的艺术在于知道何时坚持，何时放手。

The heart is a fragile thing, but it is also the source of our greatest strength.

亲戚都不归附，也就不要对外办交际。