我不是为未来创作，我是为现在创作。

A building should breathe, just like a living thing.

And when you’re down in the hole， when that moment comes， it’s really okay to feel bad for a little while. Give yourself time to mourn what you think you may have lost but then here’s the key， learn from every mistake because every experience， encounter， and particularly your mistakes are there to teach you and force you into being more who you are. And then figure out what is the next right move.

当我们未能设定界限并让人们承担责任时，我们会感到被利用和虐待。