And that's a lot of the reason why we care so much about our careers and indeed start caring so much about material goods. You know, we're often told that we live in very materialistic times, that we're all greedy people. I don't think we are particularly materialistic. I think we live in a society which has simply pegged certain emotional rewards to the acquisition of material goods. It's not the material goods we want;

领导力在于因为你的存在而使他人变得更好，并确保这种影响在你离开后依然存在。

当心忍耐者的暴怒。

真爱就是你把别人的需求放在自己之前。