士大夫当为子孙造福,不当为子孙求福。谨家规,崇俭朴,教耕读,积陰德,此造福也;广田宅,结姻缘,争什一,鬻功名,此求福也。造福者,澹而长;求福者,浓而短。
读书人要为子孙营造福祉而不是祈求福祉。严谨家规,崇尚俭朴,教导耕田读书,累积陰德,这就是营造福祉。广积土地房屋,拉拢关系争取利益,买卖功名,这就是求福祉。营造福祉的,平淡而长久;祈求福祉的,浓郁却短暂。
Man makes religion; religion does not make man.
A true friend is the one who holds your hand and touches your heart.
Acting is not just about playing a role, it's about living the life of the character.
I don’t like to be put in a box. I’m always trying to do something different.
最好的领导者是那些能够赋能他人去领导的人。
我对一遍又一遍地扮演同一个角色不感兴趣。