和我一起变老吧！最好的日子还在后头，生命的最后时光，正是为了最初的日子而存在的。
You can't please everyone, so don't try.
Read, read, read. Read everything — trash, classics, good and bad, and see how they do it. Just like a carpenter who works as an apprentice and studies the master. Read! You'll absorb it. Then write. If it's good, you'll find out. If it's not, throw it out of the window.