I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything.Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man.
智者不会武断地肯定任何事情,甚至不会断言智者一无所知。
Success in life means doing that which is the very best for us, under the conditions in which we are placed.
重要的不是你打得多狠,而是你能承受多大的打击并继续前进。