过去是一个跟随我们的影子，无论我们跑得多快。

只有在水里的时候，我才感到平静。

And the thing about a successful life is that a lot of the time, our ideas of what it would mean to live successfully are not our own. They're sucked in from other people; chiefly, if you're a man, your father, and if you're a woman, your mother. Psychoanalysis has been drumming home this message for about 80 years. No one's quite listening hard enough, but I very much believe it's true.

决不要害怕刹那－－永恒之声这样唱着。

过去总是紧张的，未来是完美的。