决策的质量不是由结果来衡量,而是由做出决策的过程来衡量。
仲弓问仁。孔子说:“出门时要象会见贵宾一样庄重,建工程时要象举行盛大祭典一样严肃。自己不愿做的,不要强加于人。同事中相处融洽,亲属中和睦友爱。”仲弓说:“我虽不才,愿照此办理。”
The only thing that is under control is your effort.
The more you know who you are, and what you want, the less you let things upset you.