The surest way to corrupt a youth is to instruct him to hold in higher esteem those who think alike than those who think differently.
                    The psychologist must be a dispassionate observer.
                    Data is not the answer, but the beginning of the question.
                    你无法改变自己是谁,只能改变自己做什么。
                    在背后夸奖别人。这会传回到你自己那里。