留得五湖明月在,不愁无处下金钩。
只要有能力,总有机会翻身。  
当然,言语是人类使用的最强大的药物。
The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, in a sense, tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mother's side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent.