Parenting is not a race to see how quickly you can teach your child to be independent. It’s about being there for them so they can learn to be independent at their own pace.
育儿不是一场看你能多快教会孩子独立的竞赛。而是陪伴他们，让他们按照自己的节奏学会独立。
生活是一系列自然和自发的变化。不要抗拒它们；那只会带来悲伤。让现实成为现实。让事物以它们喜欢的方式自然流动。
人必须在具体事情上磨炼功夫，才能有所收获。如果只是喜欢安静，遇到事情就会慌乱，终究不会有进步。
A building must be a good neighbor.
"We sleep safe in our beds because rough men stand ready in the night to visit violence on those who would do us harm."