我们所认识的最美丽的人是那些经历过失败、痛苦、挣扎、失落，并找到了走出深渊之路的人。

All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter into another.

人们为了自己幸福，会让别人不幸。