不要等着暴风雨自己过去；要在雨中跳舞。

爱好学习接近智慧，努力行善接近仁德，知道耻辱就接近勇敢。

Make decisions when you are ready, not under pressure. Others will always push you to make a decision for their own purposes, internal politics, or some other external need. But you can almost always say, “I need a little more time to think about this. I’ll get back to you.” This tactic is very effective at defusing even the most difficult and uncomfortable situations.