来访者知道什么伤害了他，该往哪个方向走，哪些问题是关键的，哪些经历被深深埋藏。
It is the client who knows what hurts, what directions to go, what problems are crucial, what experiences have been deeply buried.
译文：纵欲放荡、消极怠慢就不能勉励心志使精神振作，冒险草率、急躁不安就不能修养性情。