心理学家必须研究心灵的实际状态,而非理想状态。
The psychologist must study the mind as it is, not as it ought to be.
In the end, all we have are the stories we tell ourselves.
The brain is the most complex thing we have yet discovered in our universe.
Challenges are opportunities in disguise; embrace them and grow stronger.
如果你无法改变现状,那就改变你的心态。
If you don't go through the tough times, you don't get to the good times.
可怕的是假装二流是一流的。假装你不需要爱,而实际上你需要;或者假装你喜欢你的工作,而你很清楚你能做得更好。