"When you are young, you think you can leave and never look back. But you always do."
To lose one parent may be regarded as a misfortune; to lose both looks like carelessness.
司马牛问君子。孔子说:“君子不忧不惧。”问:“不忧不惧,就能叫做君子吗?”孔子说:“问心无愧,何来忧惧?”