时间是最好的建筑师，它会让真正的建筑沉淀下来。
Time is the best architect; it allows true architecture to settle.
——1964年瑞佛尼亚审判法庭陈述
Nobody understands when a woman makes a choice to marry and have children, in one way her life begins, but in another way, it stops. You build a life of details, and you just stop and stay steady, so that your children can move. And when they leave,they take your life of details with them. You are expected to move on again, but you don't remember what it was that moved you, because no one's asked you in so long.Not even yourself.
不要告诉别人怎么做，告诉他们做什么，让他们用结果给你惊喜。